Drama Queen?

By: A.i on Monday, November 25, 2013

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Ive been waiting to write about this for a few months ago. I really can't stand it when someone creating such a dramatic situation to seek for attention. I sometimes making jokes about it, because it ridiculous. I'll hide a thousand years under my bed just to avoid too much attention from people. Its overwhelming, why you wanna looking for it?

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships.

The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.

Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.

Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviours, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction.

I mean, isn't it creepy? You wanna be the center of attention and you create some bullshit drama to make you "look" vulnerable so people would put their sympathy over it. I'm sick of it. I have to read it over and over again. People on facebook nowadays. ugh why..

Facebook is weird. You'll find people on their who get all kinds of attention, but you have to wonder how many of their Facebook friends really know them well in real life, because you don't know how anyone could stand them if they knew them well.

Maybe the next time people creating their Drama, i just gonna sit down, grabbing my popcorn, and watch their shit. Its really fun to do..